Channeled through Rhonda Lynn
January 18, 2008 in Bethesda, MD
Blessings dear ones, I am Miriam. I am so delighted to be here tonight with you and I am so glad you could come to join us, to be together here in this place. It’s such a blessing, such an honor to share this time with you.
We have much to talk about. There are so many things to say to you. We feel your hearts and we know the transitions that you’re going through right now. We feel your confusion, we feel your frustration – it’s difficult isn’t it? It’s difficult to not know what’s around the corner and to make choices. You’re doing the very best that you can, aren’t you? You’re making choices to do things that may bring up some fear in you.
And so, I would like to come here tonight to help you to understand a little bit about this decision making process so that in understanding how you make decisions and how you make choices you’ll be able to flow with the process a little bit easier and not be so fearful about the outcome because that’s really the problem, isn’t it? That’s really the hard thing – to make a decision without looking at the outcome. They seem to be intertwined, they seem to be permanently bonded, they seem to be two elements that can’t be distinguished from one another. But it’s really not so.
When you walk into the decision making process, dear ones, you begin with the desire. You begin looking at your life and saying, “Hummm, something in this now moment either isn’t enough or is too much or it feels too good and of course, I don’t deserve it or it doesn’t feel good and I deserve more.” In those moments of judging your circumstance in any given moment, you determine that something must change.
Now, this is either conscious or unconscious. There are times in which a situation will come to you that will give you an opportunity for change that you don’t think that you asked for. But, you did. You did, you see, you called it to you.
You called it to you because there was something on some level of your energetic existence that sent out a signal – that sent out a frequency that told the Universe that I am either ready for something or that I want something different now. I am ready to move on to the next step. And so it was delivered to you.
So now, here you are, you have drawn this opportunity for change to you and you sit with the choice of whether to move with it – to move with it gently and allow it to flow or to resist it by saying, “No…no, I don’t want that.”
When humans face the opportunity for change, it is very common that they meet it with resistance. It’s this resistance that you feel to the change itself that causes the energy to get all bottled up and blocked. It is because you called this to you, you called this to you and the energy arrives in the form of this opportunity and the energy just wants to flow.
You called it like when the pizza arrives at the door – you open the door and you bring the pizza in. You don’t order a pizza, see it’s a pizza and then close the door, do you? That wouldn’t be flow of energy, would it?
To be truly courageous in our humanness, and totally responsible for all the things we call to us – can we stand in that responsibility and say, “This came to me because I called I and now have an opportunity that I called to me…I brought this to me…I asked for it.” Now there it sits in front of you and the choice is precipitated. How are you going to respond, how are you going to react to this?
To fling the doors wide open and welcome this opportunity would be the most gracious response to the Universe for responding to your request. And it would allow the Universal Laws of Resonance and of Cause and Effect to flow. In doing so, standing boldly at the door of this opportunity, to allow it to come to you, to allow it to wash over you, to feel it and then just sit with it and say, “I have a choice. I’ve brought this opportunity to me and so how am I going to discern – now this is the key word – how am I going to DISCERN what my choice will be? How will I move with this? How will I stand as this energy opportunity moves through me?”
Discernment, dear ones, is simply a process of the mind assessing any given situation. Discernment is simply a brain activity that assesses and evaluates. That’s all. Now, judgment, that’s a horse of a different color, isn’t it? Judgment is when we decide that one thing is better than another thing. One choice is a good choice and the other is bad. This is judgment.
To look at an opportunity and discern the range of options and opportunities available and then to determine that there is a right answer or a right choice is truly human thinking. But it’s not truth at all. There is no such thing as a right choice. You have brought this opportunity for change and you sit before it now with the opportunity to create any number of potentials simply by looking at the opportunity and imagining, “What will I do with this? Will I take the job? Will I go to this place? Will I stay where I am or will I move with it?” Any number of options are available to you.
And so, as you evaluate through your discernment and you use your creative abilities to come up with a wonderful, enormous banquet of options, what you’re doing is that you are throwing potentials out to the Universe. You are creating these potentials simply by imagining them. So imagine big! Imagine with passion, imagine with positivity and creative imagination and think outlandishly!
If you are at a turning point in your life or if you are in transition, wallow in it with joy. Not sitting in it, tolerating it until it’s over. With the frequencies of joy, passion, creativity, excitement and change, “Whoa, what could I make my life be now? How can I create my life to be better as a result of this opportunity?”
When you imagine the possibilities, paint with broad brush strokes – coming up with the most outlandish ideas and throwing those potentials out into the Universe – there you will sit with a wondrous, magical, beautiful, exciting, extravagant array of potentials that you’ve created. You’ve created all of that just in your thinking. And now, you sit back…”Aaahhhh, whatever will I do with all this wondrous possibility in my life? What shall I choose?”
You can’t make a wrong choice. There’s no such thing. You can take any one of those potentials and you could choose it and walk down that path and make it what you want it to be. Don’t you see this? There’s no better or worse path to walk down. Each one will have its own struggles and joys and heartaches and wondrous beauty and excitement and passion and drama. Each one will have its own set of unique experiences so just choose. What difference does it make? None at all, you can’t choose wrong. Does this make sense to you?
Can you see how you can change the posture of your transition simply by taking the judgment away from it? Making your choice based on, “Huummm, which one of my many options would give me the most joy right now?
Which one of my many choices will most fully actualize all of my talents so that I can be in service in the most grand way?
Which one of these choices will bring me into a closer relationship with my spiritual nature?
Which one will support me as I unfold into the magnanimous, magical and mythical angel that I am?
Which one of these choices is going to support the incredible potential that I have as I move forward exploring my soul purpose and finding it and unfolding in it.
So, it’s really quite simple and it’s not nearly as serious as you are making it out to be.
Each one of you is at a stage – a decision point we call it – a decision point in some area of your life. Some of you have bigger decisions to make. Bigger in terms of it’s going to require larger change – changing more things in your life and it has the potential for more stress because humans get a little stressed out when many things change in their life.
But each one of you has the opportunity to make the choices before you from your heart – from your heart saying, “What do I really want?” And embracing that opportunity for change, holding on to it like something precious – a precious opportunity that you called to yourself. And so, in gratitude – we spoke of gratitude being an incredible transformational frequency – in gratitude, sitting in front of this incredible blank canvas in front of you, standing strong, firm, fully empowered as the creator that you are, knowing that you can’t make a mistake and knowing that you can always choose again.
If you walk down that path and you don’t like it – perhaps it’s not as much fun as you thought it would be or it doesn’t feel as good as you thought it might – then just choose again. You’re drawing with erasable ink dear ones. There are no permanent markers in heaven…not a one.
Everybody take a nice deep breath…aaahhhhh…aaaaahhhh. I would like you to think about this choice that you have before you. I want you to breathe it in to your energy anatomy. Breathe it into your heart and I want you to feel it. I want you to feel it with gratitude. Hold it in your heart and embrace it…everybody breathe it in.
Hold this opportunity as a precious creation, something that you have brought to you. Now, we’re all mothers on some level, even if it’s just in practice. If you have a pet, you are a mother, in a sense. You know your children – or your pets – how precious they are. Well this opportunity for change is like being pregnant, is it not? Think about it.
You are about to give birth to a whole new chapter of your life, a whole area of your life, a whole new different way of being, of doing, of relating – whether it is to yourself or to other people – and this precious opportunity is yours. You created it. Don’t resist. Resist the temptation to resist.
The resisting simply pushes it away and it stops that creative energy, that creative process of creating the outcomes, the potential for the outcomes. You are creating all of these potentials and all of these options and it’s so ironic that you resist it because you want to know what the outcomes are going to be.
You haven’t created it yet. You can’t know the outcome because you have yet to create it. You have all of these paths that you can walk down, all of these options that you have just created, all of these potentials that you have created from your imagination. There’s an outcome for every one of those paths.
But dear ones, don’t you realize, the outcome doesn’t happen until you’ve gotten down the path. And, every choice that you make along that path is going to determine what that outcome is going to be. So, being attached to an outcome when you haven’t created it yet is kind of human silliness, isn’t it? You can want an outcome, you can desire an outcome, but it is under your total power as to how it unfolds.
St. Germain is tapping me on the shoulder and he wants to put in his two cents worth, he wants his turn now. I encourage you, dear, dear ones…don’t take this nearly as seriously as you have been. Lighten up, enjoy it. It seems so serious because for some of you, the choices that you are making are very big. It requires either a lot of money, or a change, or a move where everything is disrupted. All this is stressful, yes, but it can be unstressed. Couldn’t you make it into unstressed? Yes….
(Rhonda: “I feel like they are both still here, like they want to have a conversation. Miriam hasn’t quite left.”)
Greetings dear ones, I am St. Germain and yes, yes, you are right. We spoke with Rhonda a while ago, where she is welcome to take a more active role in our little gathering, where she sits here in this body and she is here and she hasn’t left, I am here, Miriam is here. Rhonda wanted to have us announce our comings and goings and I suggested that perhaps she could just do that herself. We didn’t ask her to leave the room and she is here with us. So, she may just get the courage to chime in here at any given point.
I love what Miriam has been saying and it is so very true. This whole subject of change is such a heartache for some of you and it doesn’t have to be at all. I don’t want to be the bringer of bad news but I might suggest to you that you use these opportunities of relatively small change to develop the patterns and habits of how you are going to respond and react to these opportunities because they are going to become more frequent in the days and the years ahead.
And they are going to be very profound, to offer you opportunities to change on very deep levels – levels that you would have no idea about. Change on levels involving not only your physicality but the way that you interact with the world that you live in, this 3D construct that you have created to act out your human experience.
There’s going to be tremendous change in the way that you relate to one another in your relationships – relationships with Mother Earth, with yourself, with your family, with society. So I’m here to tell you, get used to it because change is going to be a way of life. Nothing is constant except change. And, it’s going to get constanter.
Miriam, do you notice that they are not laughing at my jokes?
Miriam: Well, St. Germain, some of them are funny.
Saint Germain: Well thank you, I guess I’ll have to work on my material.
So here we are, back at change, changing again, changing still. Where does your resistance come from? Have you identified it? Have you thought about it? Why is it that you resist change? It’s an innate part of you. You are humans – you have come here, incarnated on this planet for the purpose of what? To change, to evolve.
This human process is all about evolution and evolution is nothing but change. So, why do you resist it? This is our innate reason for being. Where does the resistance come from? Any ideas? (“Fear.”) Fear, fear, yes.
Fear is an interesting frequency. Do you know what fear does in your body? The frequency of fear – we call it an emotion, you have identified it as an emotion but we have talked about this before that fear is a frequency. As far as the Universe is concerned, fear is just a frequency.
The frequency of fear is very low and when the frequency of fear courses through your energy anatomy, it is so low that it has a tendency to slow things down. You know the Law of Resonance – this dynamic of resonance and entrainment – when the frequency of fear goes into your core and your energy systems, it begins to entrain your physicality.
So, if you are at a high frequency normally, it is going to slow you down. It’s going to slow your creativity, it’s going to slow down the vibration of your cells….like molasses in your system, kind of sticky and gooey. That’s something of a visualization, isn’t it?
So, when fear comes up, and you are sitting with it, something that is that heavy, is that going to help you move forward? Nooooo, it’s going to be an anchor around your ankles. An ankle anchor. But, why?
If we know that resistance is the result of fear, what are we afraid of? Do you know what you are afraid of? (“Money.”) You’re afraid of money? (“Yes.”) You’re afraid of having it or afraid of losing it? (“Not having it.”) You’re afraid of not having it? Do you have it now? (“Yes.”) So you are afraid of losing it, is that accurate? (“Yes.”)
What else, anyone else, do you know what you are afraid of? (“The unknown…not knowing what you are going to accomplish.”) The unknown…yes. Why are you afraid of the unknown? What could happen to you? (“I don’t know.”) So not knowing what’s going to happen is what you are afraid of? (“Yes.”) But, you’re the one who’s going to create it. So, can you make something up that will get you by? (“Yes.”) There you go.
You see, ultimately, it doesn’t matter. Miriam said this earlier that you’re going to create it anyway, so make it up. If you look at this big decision, you could very well say, “Uh, I’m feeling some fear, I don’t know what’s going to happen if I take this choice, if I move to another country and start all over. But I’m afraid. What will happen to me over there?”
Make it up! Say, “I know what’s going to happen to me over there, I’m going to make it happen and this is what it’s going to be.” So you start creating it. Get out your white board and tell yourself I’m going to live in this kind of house, I’m going to have this kind of a job and I’m going to know this kind of people, I’m going to have all of these friends, and I’m going to drink some lovely wine and I’m going to truly enjoy my life in this new place. How does that feel? (“I don’t know.”) Why not? You’re going to create it anyway so use your imagination and choose to feel good about it.
What else are you afraid of? (“Death.”) Ohhh, that’s a big one – what’s going to happen if I die… Well, if you made a choice and you died then you’ll simply come over to this side to the biggest party that you’ve ever known. I don’t want to make light of this fear because this human fear of death is very deep one.
And it is supported by Ego and Ego’s existence is dependant upon us living. So the very thought that the body would die would mean that Ego would die. So the Ego is very much invested in keeping you alive. And so I do understand that in humans this fear of death is very profound, it is very deep. It goes back many lifetimes.
But here’s how we get around this one. Ego is a third dimensional construct and as it abides in third dimensional reality, we can get past Ego by going into the higher dimensions. Correct? The higher we raise in awareness of who we really are as spiritual beings, the more we raise up out of Ego. The more we go out of the realm in which Ego tends to have dominance, as we strengthen the spiritual nature of who or that which we are, our divinity, as that becomes stronger, it balances out Ego.
Now, we have talked about the Holon and how you can activate Prime Motive, your primary reason for being here, why you incarnated on this planet as a human. Prime Motive is why you separated from Creator and it is the basis for why you are human. As you learn to strengthen your higher refined attributes or qualities, you stand in your conscious awareness of who you are as a spiritual being and you’ll take yourself to the peak, to be able to look down and observe this third dimensional reality.
You’ll be able to see who you are and you’ll see the big picture. The picture will become bigger and bigger and bigger as you raise in consciousness. And as you do that, then you will know – you will know to the very core of your being that you are energy that cannot be destroyed. That you are spiritual in nature, that you are not this physical body, that this is just a vehicle, this is just a spacesuit.
So, when you start to feel this fear of death, this is just a symptom – an indicator that you must immediately focus on your spiritual self. Activate your Holon – go there immediately to gain perspective – to gain perspective and to balance Ego. Not to kick Ego in the pants to tell him to go to the basement, to go away, you’re out of here – this is not what we want to do.
We want to embrace Ego and thank it for its dedicated devoted service to you. For getting you through 3D reality efficiently and effectively and what it has done. You need Ego in order to exist in third dimensional reality. So, we just want to balance it with your spiritual nature, that’s all, just balance it.
So all of these fears are real, they are legitimate. They come to you from a point of being authentically human and they are most likely a download from your past – it has something to do with your past. It’s like a symptom that tells you that you have a cold virus. A symptom tells you that there is something here to feel – there is something here to look at.
The fear of death…look at it. Why am I afraid of death? Don’t I know that I am eternal? Don’t I know that I cannot be destroyed? Don’t I know that death is simply a transition from one form of energy to another form of energy? When that fear of death comes up, however irrational it may seem, look at the fear – the issue that’s coming up for healing – and the opportunity to practice, to bring your self into understanding.
The fear of loss is a big one whether it’s loss of money, loss of a relationship, loss of life, loss of anything. This goes to lack mentality. Our belief there isn’t enough or that when it goes away it will not be replaced.
Abundant thinking...abundant beliefs tell us that there is more than enough in the Universe, they tell us that once I’ve created it I can created it again, right? If you had it once, then there’s more of that. So there’s an opportunity to remind yourself of your power as a creator, as a spiritual energetic being.
Afraid of losing something? Well this is an opportunity then to give it away so that I can prove to myself that I am not attached to this thing. I can give it away because I know that I can make some more – whether it’s money or love or relationships – because everything is energy. It’s just a matter of how you call it to you, how you keep that flow moving and the fear is going to stop the flow. If you are afraid of losing it, you will.
So, dear ones, I would wrap this up by encouraging you to evaluate what it is that’s behind your resistance. What’s holding you back from flinging open the doors of opportunity and saying, “YES!” What’s keeping you from boldly walking through that door and grabbing hold of the path and saying, “Yeah! That’s what I want! I‘m grabbing it and I’m taking it and I’m making this opportunity out to be everything that I ever wanted it to be!” Why? “Because I can!”
That’s all the reason you need. You’ve been doing this for eons and eons and eons and eons. Not just in one lifetime but in a multitude of lifetimes. You’re doing it by default. If you’ve done it once, you can do it again, and again, and again.
So, look at your resistance. This is your homework. Take a good look at what’s going on in your life and where you feel the energy is not moving – where you don’t feel joy and excitement and if you are not in joy and excitement at a period of change or a decision point, you need to figure out why.
Because any other frequency than gratitude, joy, passion or creativity is not going to get the job done when it comes to manifesting, creating and unfolding into this new opportunity that you have before you. So it’s your job to find out what the resistance is and where it’s coming from – to feel it, love it, forgive it and release it.
Then find that center, that space where you are connected to your highest divinity and download all of the joy, the passion and the gratitude…the rest will come. Just sit and be grateful for the opportunity. Be grateful for not knowing because you have an opportunity to make it up. Be grateful to lose it so that you can do it all over again. The first time was fun, wasn’t it?
So dear ones, I must go. Your human construct of time is calling me back into my box but I do thank you for being here with us tonight, for opening your minds to all of the possibilities and the potentials that sit before you, for welcoming the opportunity of taking another step into your own empowerment, your self-responsibility.
This is huge, this is really huge. Do you know that? Those two things, self-responsibility and self-empowerment are the two attributes that are going to get you through these very profound periods of change that are coming. No one can feel empowered when they are in fear. No one can take self-responsibility unless they are empowered.
And so, I will leave you. Know that there are tools and opportunities and ways in which you can support one another. This is a very short time to put out a lot of information. I know that there must be a lot of questions and, “Okay, but how…how do I do that?” Support one another. Come into your groups and support one another.
You have much in common and the power of your consciousness in a group is unfathomable – you don’t understand the unfathomable healing power of entrainment. The groups will be a big part of relationships in the coming years and the way that you will relate to one another – the very first steps of moving into Oneness are groups.
So do it where you can, find an excuse, find a reason, find people, draw them to you, be together, find things in common, answer each others questions. You all have the answers. You don’t need me. Step boldly. Walk in your strength, knowing who you are and support one another. You are so dearly, dearly loved…always.
And so it is.
